SHY GIRL
Most Filipinas are actually very shy around foreigners. A girl fresh
from the province is almost certain to be shy. This shyness might only last a few weeks or months but it will be unmistakable.
Body shyness is a big part of this. Proper attire for a Filipina swimming in the provinces is not a bikini. It is mostly long pants or shorts and a heavy shirt over an undershirt and a bra. Take a body shy girl from the province and put her on stage in a bikini and watch the fun. She will try to stand behind the other girls on stage and hide various body parts with her hands if she catches you looking too closely.
Body shy girls are often verbally shy as well. You can buy them a LD and they can easily remain silent or give one word answers to your questions for the entire time you are in the bar. I have found real gems among the shy girls as they are often quite new to the bar scene. It may take a few days to get the shy girl to relax with you but the result may be worth it.
STUNNER
Maybe it is her skin tone, her beautiful face but mostly it is her
entire shape and body that makes a stunner. Sure beauty is in the eye of the beholder but some girls are just simply maganda to many foreigners - especially after a few drinks, LOL.
Unfortunately the stunner will realize this about five minutes after she starts working inside a bar and sees all the attention directed at her. At this point her attitude starts to change. She starts thinking about what the customer can do for her instead of what she can do for the customer to make him happy.
My experience with stunner girls is that usually her bad attitude overpowers her beauty. Stunner girls often quickly develop into high maintenance girls. More so when you date them for a few days or for a while.
HIGH MAINTENANCE GIRL
These girls are easily spotted from across the bar by the glare from their gold jewelry. A cherry girl or a girl fresh from the province will have very little jewelry. Jewelry is often given when the girl makes the guy very happy. If he didn't buy the gold jewelry then he gave her enough pesos for her to buy it herself.
On the plus side it means that she is capable of making someone very happy. Unfortunately her boyfriend or honeyko may have her so emotionally wrapped up that she will not make you very happy.
In my experience a high maintenance girl is a risky EWR. If you are only looking to butterfly - a series of one night stands, then it is doubtful that she will forget her boyfriend(s) long enough to show you a good time in one night.
PROFESSIONAL GIRL
This girl knows what you want and is prepared to deliver it to you
with minimal hassles. She doesn't waste time telling you much about herself and her problems. The professional girl will be asking you if you want short time or long time and what positions would be required.
If she is very professional she may even want to discuss the size of her tip before she has even left the bar. Some prefer this directness but it lacks a little of the GFE (Girl Friend Experience) that I enjoy so much in PI. On the plus side, the professional girl may be the only honest bar girl that you will meet in your stay in PI.
BOLA BOLA GIRL
Some will argue that every bar girl in PI is a BOLA BOLA (liar) girl.
They may be right. Some girls will even lie to you for no reason. In
their defense they have to listen to all the foreigners lie to them
constantly also. It is only natural for them to want to return the
favor. They simply don't think that it is inappropriate for them to
lie to you. It takes a long time for most bar girls to trust you enough to be honest with you.
Sadly, for some bar girls it is simply not possible for them to be honest. If any single stereotype can be found in combination with others then this is one that fits all of the stereotypes.
SUPPORT GIRL
This girl's objective is to get you interested enough in her to send
her monthly support payments. The fact that she has three other guys already sending her support will not deter her in the slightest.
Honesty is a joke. She will literally do or say anything to get what
she wants. She may test you early on by asking if she can stop at JJ's supermarket before going to your hotel. Of course you are expected to pay. If she says she needs hair conditioner but you walk out of JJ's with three or more items than she may be testing you.
If your pockets are deep and your hotel room expensive then she will take note. You can expect the magic word 'support' to be mentioned in the morning. You might think it strange that a bar girl would even mention the word support after only one night but believe me it happens. On the plus side, it might be a great night as she could be very motivated.
SECOND TIER
These are the girls that make up the bulk of the lineup in any bar.They aren't stunners but are still decent looking girls with fair to
good figures. Maybe a skin condition, a small rice belly or some bad teeth keeps them from being a stunner. One thing that you will notice in the PI is that girls from the poorer provinces have rarely if ever visited a dentist and an orthodontist would be impossibly expensive.
The advantage of a second tier girl is that they don't have the
attitude of the stunners. They are very happy that you chose them for EWR and their performance in the bedroom is usually great.
You probably have the best chance of a GFE with one of these girls. They have no intention of leaving after one session. Your aircon hotel room with cable TV and minibar is heaven to them, compared to their tiny apartments with three bar girl roommates. Often times they will develop into Cinderella girls, particularly if you EWR them more then one night.
CINDERELLA
She is looking for Prince Charming to rescue her from her life of
poverty and prostitution. Her favorite movie is 'Pretty Woman'. If she thinks you are her prince then you are in for a wild ride. She will do and say almost anything in order to be with you. Honesty about her past is forgotten in her desire to present herself to you in the best possible light.
She desperately wants to hear the magic words 'mahal
kita' (I love you) from you. If you are foolish enough to say the
magic words then she will instantly start planning your lives together as newlyweds. Children's names will be suggested by her. On the plus side you can expect some great times in bed as she tries her very best to please you.
However, when you ask her to go home in the morning the
tears will be histrionic. Spending a week or more with one girl can
often turn her into Cinderella but it can also happen in one night, if you are very nice to her.
CHERRY GIRL
In my experience there are three kinds of cherry girls in AC. The
obvious one is the true cherry girl (virgin) that is looking for a
husband. Filipino culture values virginity quite highly. A Filipino
man with an education and a good job would never marry anything but a virgin. A cherry girl believes that must be true for foreigners as well. If she is husband shopping then she has to hold on to her credit card.
The second type of cherry girl is actually selling a product and you
can expect intense negotiations with mamasan over the price. Of
course, as with any verbal sales agreement, packaging and freshness are not guaranteed.
The third kind of cherry girl is the one that really doesn't want you
to EWR her. A bar girl telling you that she is cherry when you suggest going back to your hotel may be just politely saying no to you. Maybe you need to shower and brush your teeth more often. If you have already bought the girl six ladies drinks then you might be disappointed.
Shame on you, for not asking her earlier, if she was a cherry girl. If the girl doesn't want to go back to your hotel with you then it is pointless to persist. Neither of you will have a good time. With such a high bar girl population in PI you are sure to find many others that will like you or at least like your wallet.
MARTYR GIRL
A lot of girls fresh from the province will fall into this stereotype.
The girl will say that she has been forced by her family to work in
the big cities and send money home to them every month. She will tell you that she is actually a good girl and she may even believe it herself for a long time. Other jobs would not allow her to send enough support to her family.
Unfortunately the attention and money from foreigners' changes them over time. The fact that she has an expensive cell phone, nice clothes, manicures and pedicures twice a week is ignored. In her mind she is still forced to work in the bar in order to support her family.
She wants your sympathy. She wants you to feel guilty. She also wants a big tip. The martyr girl can't really enjoy herself or be your girlfriend in your hotel room or she wouldn't be a martyr.
WESTERNIZED GIRL
These girls are easy to spot as they will often have dyed hair,
stylish haircuts, heavy makeup and white faces. They embrace the
western culture and reject their own heritage. If you watch Filipino television and movies you will notice that the 'good' characters have western noses and skin colors. The Westernized girl will often accessorize herself with western clothes, cigarettes and body jewelry.
I am not sure why they think that a guy would travel across the globe to be with a western looking Filipina.
FALLING STAR
Filipinas normally look much younger than their years. Even so, a
bar girl that works for too many years in PI will start to look older.
If she has had one or more children then it will likely have taken a
toll on her figure. A falling star will often work as a waitress and
may wear a fair bit of makeup. A waitress uniform hides the years
better than a bikini. When the other girls in the bar are 18 or 19
years old, then a 25 year old falling star has some seriouscompetition. That translates into fewer ladies drinks and fewer EWRs.
Anyone who has experienced a drop in income will know that it is a difficult adjustment. For a Filipina, whose family is demanding ever increasing amounts of support money, the pressure can be enormous. The falling star may not be wearing much jewelry but they probably have some pawnshop slips in their purse. These girls can be aggressive in the bar. They can't let you spend 15 minutes looking at the bikinis on stage.
They will be flashing their susu's (breasts) or other body
parts in your direction. Lap dancing and heavy petting are often on the menu. They will be asking you to EWR them and not be concerned with getting more than one ladies drink. In my experience they can make excellent EWR's. They will often be more willing to accommodate your specific sexual requests than a younger and more popular girl.
Their years in the bar scene will also give them a lot more skill than some of the newer girls. Turn the lights off in your hotel room and have fun.
AGGRESSIVE GIRL
It seems that most bars have one or two very aggressive girls working for them. The aggressive girl is usually the first to greet you when you walk into the bar. She is often has the loudest voice in the bar.
She is probably not shy about revealing various body parts to you, even from on stage. She will sit down beside you or even on your lap without an invitation. A ladies drinks will magically appear, again often without your consent. The bar tolerates her aggressiveness because of the number of ladies drinks that she sells in an evening.
Typically, she is not very interested in EWR as that costs her time
from the bar that she could be making commissions on ladies drinks. If she does go EWR then it is probably short time or she could very well be a runner.
It is easy to distinguish the falling star from the aggressive girl. If you are under a lot of pressure to buy ladies drinks then you are dealing with an aggressive girl. Fortunately it is also easy to avoid the clutches of an aggressive girl in the bar.
Simply refuse to buy her a ladies drink and she will be on the lap of another bar patron in an instant.
TBIRD
Most bars have one or two T-birds (lesbians) working in the bar. They may not be obvious but certainly the other bar girls know which girls are the T-birds. I really can't say what proportion of T-birds are bisexual. I have seen some T-birds's be bar fined by a lesbian foreigner.
I know of one that goes to PI to do just that. Once you know which girls in the bar are T-birds it can be fun to watch them interact with a straight bar girl. Imagine EWRing two T-birds to put on a show in your hotel room while you are getting it on with a heterosexual bar girl!
COMMITTED GIRL
Some AC bar girls already have boyfriends (foreigner or Filipino) or
even husbands. They are working in the bar because they need the money to keep their partner(s) happy. Sadly, some level of domestic abuse may be involved.
They are not likely going to make you happy in your
hotel room when their life is so sad. They are often adept at keeping the fact of a boyfriend a secret from customers. If they seem reluctant to agree to long time or discuss particular sexual positions then there is a good chance that they are committed to another guy.
They are often under pressure from the bar to get more EWRs. If
mamasan is pushing you to EWR, but the girl seems reluctant, then you may be dealing with a committed girl. If you do EWR a committed girl then you have a much higher than normal chance of dealing with a runner on your hands.
SHABU GIRL
Sadly, the illegal and addictive amphetamine shabu is readily
available in the PI. Some girls are working in bars simply to finance their shabu addiction. The medical symptoms of a shabu user are: increased energy, perception, self confidence as well as a sense of euphoria.
However, they also commonly experience irritability, impulsiveness, impaired judgement, and insomnia, as well as nausea, dizziness and anorexia. Personally, I avoid the moody, skinny girls that appear to be high. It is really not something that you can totally avoid, so I would not worry about it too much.
ALCOHOLIC GIRL
A bar girl consuming tequila shots every evening will eventually
develop a dependence on alcohol. If you think that the only alcoholics in PI are the foreigners and the expats then you are fooling yourself.
Yes, 19 year old bar girls can be alcoholics. It doesn't take much
tequila to get a 90 lbs. bar girl drunk. If you think that a drunk or
hungover bar girl is going to be a wildcat in bed then you are sadly
mistaken. You are far more likely to be cleaning up after her,
listening to dry heaves all night or staring at her comatose body. If its 10 pm and a bar girl has already had a few too many then ask her when her shift starts. You can always come back another day and rescue her from the evil demon tequila by EWRing her when her shift starts.
Just don't take her bar hopping for six hours or at least make sure she is drinking something other than booze.
THREE HOLER GIRL
If you are really interested in a three holer girl then I think you
would have better luck asking the mamasan first. Be sure to buy the mamasan a drink before you pop that question. Few girls in the bars are three holers and shy to talk about it inside the bar. Like I said ask the mamasan. They know which are the three holers in the bar.
